These days, many families struggle to find time when they can all be together. Sometimes it's because both parents work long hours
and sometimes it's because of the kids' many extracurricular activities.
Some nights are going to be crazy busy and you each just
have to eat when you can. Other times your family can shift things around to make time for a family meal. Dinner together as a family
has never been so important. Why? Here are some reasons:
Eating meals together increases enjoyment of the meal. Food tastes so much
better when you're eating with someone else, don't you think? You might say that when you eat together your food is well-seasoned
with love or friendship.
Eating altogether encourages communication and strengthens family bonds. With hectic schedules, families
don't spend as much time together. Slowing down and sharing a meal gives everyone a chance to catch up with the day's events. You
get to find out just how each family member is doing. Call it a daily family check-up.
Younger children love having routines. Sharing
meals together with the whole family is a positive event in their young lives and they look forward to it. Don't have them share their
meal with the TV. The TV is not a dinner partner, and certainly not family.
Family dinner conversation helps children's vocabularies
to grow. When kids listen to their parents or older siblings speak, they learn new words. They will ask what the words mean or figure
out the "gist of it", but either way, they are more likely to understand and use more words because of older people conversing with
them.
The dinner table is where children learn social skills. Table manners are not something learned from a book, they're learned
by practicing them. Kids learn them from their parents - when eating with them. The art of dinner conversation is also a skill they
learn from parents at the dinner table. Another plus of dinner conversation is that kids often get to learn about their family history.
Eating traditional foods as a family strengthens a family's ethnic background. Having meals traditional to their heritage helps children
to identify and bond with their heritage.
Kids eat healthier at the family dinner table. Kids who eat without their parents tend to
eat fewer of the desired foods and more of the less-desired foods. This is particularly true of teenagers who eat more junk food or
fast food when by themselves or with friends. When kids eat with their parents, the parents usually provide healthier meals and can
keep an eye on what their kids are eating.
Even though it's not always easy to gather together as a family for a meal, it's worth
the extra effort. Eating dinner (or any meal) together is a time for nourishment as well as a time for strengthening bonds. After
all, family time is treasured time.
Peggy is the editor of the popular Cookin' Kids Newsletter. Interesting themes, fun facts, silly
clip art, easy recipes, kid jokes, cooking terms, and safety tips make this newsletter a hit with kids! Learn more about it at http://cookinkids.com